Frighteningly, what this means is “Do you fully believe in like to start with sight or can I go by again?” is in fact a valid dating approach.

Now prior to the Nice Guys TM pump their fists and yell “YES”, this doesn’t produce interest, it just reinforces what’s already there. But once you’re in a laid-back union with anyone, there’s apparently a feeling of experience and passion. Therefore, more frequently you see all of them, the greater number of you are reinforcing that passion… and working the risk of raising the amount of psychological investment to a place for which you risk blurring contours of correspondence.

Part of staying in a casual relationship is you’re not spending your entire opportunity along.